The issues you discuss are real, and something being realized and worked on by many. Your title is linkbait. ;-)
Politics of APIs - http://apievangelist.com/2014/03/17/politics-of-apis/
Politics of the API Economy - http://apievangelist.com/2015/07/27/politics-of-the-api-economy/
API Evangelist Thoughts On The Right To An API Key And Algorithmic Organizing - http://apievangelist.com/2014/09/06/api-evangelist-thoughts-on-the-right-to-an-api-key-and-algorithmic-organizing/
I don't believe need to stop kidding ourselves about APIs, we need keep having discussions about why they work, why they don't, and the common building blocks that make things go around.
Something I've been working on for over 3 years.
Kin Lane